Disclaimer: The Children and Their Families -- Prologue: No More Problem Children -- A Group for Good Parents with Difficult Kids -- My Father's Cancer -- Three Principles -- Three "Problem" Children -- The Last Problem Child Group Begins -- The First Thing Children Need — Structure -- The Second Thing Children Need — Consequences -- The Third Thing Children Need — Parent-Child Connections — The Fourth Thing Children Need — Lots and Lots of Relationships -- The Fifth Thing Children Need — A Powerful Identity -- The Sixth Thing Children Need — A Sense of Control -- The Seventh Thing Children Need — A Sense of Belonging, Spirituality, and Life Purpose -- The Eighth Thing Children Need — Rights and Responsibilities -- The Ninth Thing Children Need — Safety and Support -- Endings and New Beginnings -- A Last Visit Home.